So Im up on this Tuesday morning, a-strolling for blog topics and I happen upon a vid by my lovely girl Jia. Jia of Jia TV is what I call an all the way real sister. She talk alot of ish but she can back it up! So low and behold she has what I call "Put'em on Blast" moment that got me to thinking. Synopsis of Jia's plight, she met a man, thought said man was cool, decided to sleep with said man and it was...HORRIBLE! Needless to say I'm sure that man probably regrets ever dissapointing Miss Thing because now his lack of skill in the bedroom is YouTube fodder for thousands, if not millions of people to laugh at. Sad story, I know.
However my point in even bringing something of this nature up is to explain why I'm celebate. Oh wait, you didn't kno that did you? Well now you know. Ms.Chatterbox is abstaining, until further notice. And contrary to belief, I'm not "saving it" for marriage. I'm "saving it" for a real true connection to another being I feel worthy of giving myself to. Ergo, my title, why throw your pearls before swine? I hate to have to hit ya with a Bible verse but it applies. Think about how most men behave, pretty swine like if ya ask me. There's even a condom commercial where all the men ARE swine except the one that brings protection. Things that make you go hmmmm.
I truly feel as if women should learn the power of their vagina. Yes, vagina. I should warn that I tend to be a little unihibited with the sex talk. You've been warned! Your vagina is an amazing tool. A life giving force, a receptive power that not only recieves but gives. It gives the greatest gift of all: ANOTHER HUMAN LIFE! Now for something so powerful we have reduced our sexuality to body parts and their sizes and totally forgot the spiritual aspect of sex. Yes, there's a spiritual aspect to sex! That is why people will be quick to tell you there's a difference between having sex and making love. What exactly is the difference? Does your body behave differently, do parts grow that weren't there during unattached sex? No! What's different is there is more than a physical connection with the person you are involved in the sex act with. You normally care very much about the person and ergo making the act more loving, more beautiful, more personal.
Don't get me wrong, sex is a beautiful thing. It's how we all got here! And there's something very spiritual about the connecting of two beings to make another one. However, where Jia and many other women break my heart is that they choose people unworthy of the gift of being inside their vagina. Seriously! It's like finding out that you have gold in your backyard, only to carelessly flail it in the streets or give it to a crackhead for them to sell your precious gold for five dollars and a fix. Most unenlightened men...are like crackheads! Sex is just a fix for them. It's something they NEED, not something they desire and are willing to work to get. For them, your vagina was just a means to an end, an orgasm, or in some cases just ejaculation. We'll get into true orgasms later. They don't care about pleasing you, pleasing YOU wasn't even on the agenda. They got what they wanted, so YOU don't matter. And you let this no good excuse of a man have the most precious thing you've GOT!
Now I'm not saying that the vagina is like a frequent flyer card, or a bank account. There is no such thing as a used up, or overrun vagina. The amount of traffic does not a "good" or bad vagina make. You need'nt count on fingers and toes HOW MANY men you've been with because in the long run it truly doesnt matter. Each experience is different, and each experience serves a purpose, whether your aware of it or not. Most...are not. So they continue to sleep with people that are truly undeserving, and then wind up dissapointed. It's not the man whom you gave it up to's fault if he did not please you, especially if you never say anything. But if we're dealing with someone you barely know, you usually don't feel comfortable telling that man he's not doing it right. Afraid he may just blow up and go crazy because of his fragile ego being bruised. So that's the purpose of being with men that you know will cherish your treasure, instead of selling it for five dollars. Men who truly appreciate women are all about pleasing that woman. REAL MEN don't need instruction manuals on how and when to please a woman.
So be choosy my sisters, be safe and be careful. And know that you are precious and worth more than gold and any man who doesn't realize that...is NOT WORTH YOUR TIME!
Until next time
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