Can It Be Done????

Okay in the vein of friendship, there's this age old question that never seems to be answered satisfactorily: Can men and women be JUST FRIENDS??? My answer: Why, of course! Why? Because any one is capable of being anything to another person. Excuse my graphic langauge but just because you were born with a vajajay and he with a penis doesnt mean that you somehow must get it on with each other. What ever happen to this thing called self discipline. Because I've heard folks say "Well if your both attracted to one another...". And my question back to them is "How many people have you been physically attracted to that you slept with?" We're human, so yes we'll be attracted to one another. But that doesn't mean you always ACT upon said urges.

I honestly have more male friends than female. It's always been that way. I've just always been more attracted and comfortable around male energy. Blame it on having five brothers. See, in the above picture of my sexy future husband, he's with his FRIEND. He and Gabby have been friends for years! And I'm guessing because she's attractive, and he's attractive,people assume they have to have slept together, RIGHT? Wrong. Folks it is possible to like the company of the opposite sex with out it having to hit the sheets. We live in a very hormone driven world. And the fact that anyone can do without immediately satisfying whatever urges they may have is more forgien to people than a pig speaking Latin.

I seriously encourage plutonic male companionship, how else are you going to be aware of how men behave toward you or women in general outside of a relationship. It helps you learn about yourself, as well as teaches you a lot about MEN...trust me, talking to your girlfriends about men all the time is not the way to go. Go to the source, it will make your love life easier. Let me also add that plutonic friendships CAN turn into romantic ones, but being friends FIRST, and only friends with no hidden agenda, can strengthen the relationship in ways you couldnt imagine. Lovers turn into boyfriends, FRIENDS, true friends, turn into husbands. Believe that.

So I urge you, take that risk...be JUST FRIENDS, and see what comes out of it. You'd be pleasantly surprised at how full your life will become when men serve more purpose in your life than just a temporary, fleeting presence.

Over and out

Ms.Chatterbox