First comes love.........

So clearly this has been a busy weekend in the world of celebrity love. Both famed rapper T.I and his boo and Alicia Keys and producer Swizz Beats tied the knot. Ahhh amore.

But their unions have had their share of scandal. And it begs the question, does love really follow the traditional rules anymore??? I mean honestly do people run into their soul mates at just the right time, when everything in their life is perfect and then fall in love THEN get married THEN have kids? I mean, I don't know about you but outside of a fairytale book I don't know many love stories that go that way. And some of those who do it the "right" way, still don't always live happily ever after. #justsayin.

Everyone wants to throw stones at my girl Alicia because she fell in love with someone who was already married. I mean, not to condone what their falling in love caused in a way of pain to his ex-wife but if it was meant to be well...then it just was. *ducks as the riot ensues* I mean I know first hand what it's like to be in love with someone else's man. And no, I didn't get pregnant and then marry him but still. If we had made it down the aisle I wouldn't of wanted to hear women hissing and trying to bring shade on our union. How can I put this delicately.... ISH happens!! People fall in love and OUT of it.

Yes marriage in theory is supposed to last forever. But sometimes it doesn't. And sometimes you can fall in love at what seems like the most inopportune time (i.e while your still involved with someone else). I, personally think that there are a ton of situations similar to Mrs.Beatz situation. But unlike her most take the path of least resistance and choose to bow out. I, included. But don't knock the girl for finding love. It's a rare and beautiful thing when it's real. So don't hate congratulate. As for my boy Tip and his wifey...all I have to say is *Madea voice* It's about damn time, hell!